I am known as a compassionate person.
I'm good at remembering other people's preferences and interests.
I enjoy helping people in practical ways.
Encouraging my friends and family to love other people is important to me.
I'm able to look beyond people's faults and see their inherent value as human beings.
I value and esteem other people.
My love for someone is not diminished even when I find out about his "dark side".
I often speak complimentary, uplifting words to others.
I faithfully pray for my family and friends.
I enjoy teaching other people how to practically love others.
In dealing with people, I understand that it is possible to be correct but not kind.
I understand that part of loving someone is being willing to correct him when he is wrong and I do this in my close relationships.
I understand and accept the fact that every person has a different "capacity" (how much he can handle).
I don't mind performing menial tasks in order to help someone.
I like to plan and initiate times for people to get together and visit.
I don't mind taking the initiative to resolve a conflict between two people.
I enjoy long-term friendships.
When someone offends me, if necessary, I know how to emotionally "drop it".
If I have free time on my hands, I often use that time to serve an important cause or a person in need.
Giving of my time and talents to help others is important to me.
I'm a good "cheerleader" to people who have dreams and aspirations.
I regularly facilitate opportunities for people to help others.
I am quick to forgive; I do not carry grudges.
I'm good at recognizing when people feel overwhelmed and when they need help.
When I'm at a dinner party I like to mingle and meet new people.
I enjoy putting other people first.
I enjoy seeing other people being honored.
I enjoy taking the initiative to greet new people when they join my group.
I am willing to forgive others even when I don't feel like forgiving.
I don't mind serving as a mediator between two people who are at odds with one another.
I don't confuse biblical absolutes with my personal preferences and opinions.
I regularly monitor the emotional 'vital signs' of my friends and stay up to date on how they are doing.
I forgive others even if they don't ask for my forgiveness.
I value times of fellowship around a meal or a cup of coffee.
I don't just say, "I care" about others, I demonstrate my care.
I'm good at sensing when someone is "weary in well doing" and I take steps to help him.
I keep a list (mental or written) of the prayer needs of my family and friends.
I often volunteer to help if someone I know has a need.
I don't mind praying for people "on the spot".
I often volunteer to help other people.
I am known as a person who is willing and available to help others.
I don't become agitated or irritated if I have to wait for someone.
It grieves me when I have offended someone.
I enjoy helping people who have lost focus and direction in their lives.
I am known as a patient person.
I'm good at sensing when someone is hurting.
I am known as a faithful friend.
When I confess my faults to someone, I am careful not to make excuses or blame others.
Maintaining the health of relationships is important to me.
When I enter a room full of people I try to meet every person.
I always try to be kind to everyone I meet.
I have a regular, daily prayer time.
I am good at doing small, simple actions to demonstrate care for others (e.g., a phone call, a birthday card, a lunch date).
I don't mind submitting to other people's authority.
I can identify several acts of kindness that I have performed in the past several days.
If someone is slower than I am, I don't mind waiting for him.
I easily identify with the hurt and pain of other people.
When trying to influence others; I lead by example.
When I confront someone who needs correcting, I do so with a heavy heart because I am saddened over his sin and I want the best for his life.
I affirm the fact that every person is created in the image of God and it influences how I treat people.
I enjoy doing acts of kindness.
I don't mind confronting someone when she is wrong.
I often solicit other people's ideas and opinions.
I am usually cordial and gracious when I meet new people.
I don't mind saying, "I was wrong, will you forgive me?"
I don't mind someone sharing with me how he is feeling.
I am quick to admit when I am wrong.
I am willing to postpone my agenda in order to meet other people's needs.
I'm willing to let people be who they are; I'm not always trying to change them.
I enjoy being around people who are different than me.
I am known as an unselfish person.
I often have people over to my house.
I make a long-term commitment to my close friends.
I am known as a gracious host.
I care for all people equally; I do not show favoritism.
I am bothered when contention and strife persists in a group.